As I type this, my SIL's mother is in surgery losing all five toes on her foot. She has diabetus and hasn't really ever taken care of herself phsyically.
Hearing this and seeing how quickly she is going down hill (she just started dialisys in November) makes me so afraid for being so overwieght.
It's not just about looking decent this summer. It's about health and being around for Macie and Macie's children (my SIL is 30 weeks expecting their first child- they also had to do IVF).